Owen and the old '37 Chev |
Owen has just
left the University Hospital when he and I meet for the first time at Aunt
Eva’s stuffy little bungalow on a quiet street in Edmonton. It is June 1940 and
he is only four days old. Our mother Winnie is nursing him as she gently eases
to and fro on a creaky armless heirloom rocking chair. I am a naive lad not yet
seven, and this never-before-seen maternal activity is a lot for me to take in.
Feeling a bit shy about watching, I decide to follow the example of the adults and
act “normal”. Owen is Mom’s third child and Dad’s fifth (two from his first
marriage) - all boys. Knowing that Dad really wanted a girl, Aunt Eva jokes,
“You’ll have to try again for a girl.” Dad is now fifty-nine and Mom
forty-three. When Mom responds with “Not a chance”, I think to myself “How can she
know that?”
Growing up, Owen
is small for his age and a little “energizer bunny”. At three and four years
old he races around the yard on his tricycle, pedaling as fast as his little
feet can spin. On reaching top speed he lifts them off the pedals for a
free-wheeling fun ride. He corners around the caragana hedge balancing on just
two wheels, and coasts up to me on the wooden bench by the farmhouse back door.
He is proudly wearing a smile that says, “There, how did you like that?”
As he gets older
Owen’s interest evolves to motorized wheels. At six he takes on the role of “shadow-driver”
of the family’s two-door maroon 1937 Chev. For the next few years, whenever the
chance arises, Owen stands in the back seat, leaning forward with his head
right beside Dad’s, monitoring every driving move. He is vicariously driving
the car, often offering advice to his dad.
When Owen is ten
this “apprenticeship” has provided everything he needs to know about driving a
car. Whenever he coaxes, “Please let me drive”, Dad counters with, “Not yet,
you’re too young.” So Owen comes after me, a not so responsible seventeen year-old.
Eventually, I give in to the pleas of my still very small-for-his-age baby brother.
After all, it’s what I would want.
I take the ‘37
Chev to the farmyard – a safe place to start. Owen can hardly contain his
excitement as he scrambles in and closes the door. His little body temporarily disappears from
view as he slides down to engage the clutch to put the car into first gear. Up
he pops again and the maroon Chev moves off. On shifting to second he submerges
once more, surfacing just before threading through the yard gate and bouncing into
the south pasture scattering the sheep and cows. The return is without
incident. He can drive a car!
As a teenage
driver Owen assists in the aging of that car to the point where the motor breaks
down. He and I find a good used one and install it, testing our nascent
mechanical skills. Later, while home alone, Owen finishes connecting everything
up; the fuel line, the ignition wires, radiator hoses, exhaust pipe, and
throttle linkage, and the restored old Chev is ready to roll. Except that the
battery is too weak to start the car. There are no jumper cables so a push is the
only way to get it going.
Owen simply can’t
wait the few hours for our brother Dick or me to arrive home to help. Being
energetic, impatient, and creative he decides to act on his own. He devises a plan, “I’ll put the old car in
second gear, turn on the ignition, and ease up behind it in Dad’s sleek blue ’51
Chev and give it a little push.” Once it starts, he concludes, “I’ll just drive
past it, stop, jump out and onto the running board of the old car as it slowly chugs
by. Then I climb in and Ta dah! Mission accomplished.”
Two prominent facets
of Owen’s personality are the “analytical” and the “energetic and impatient”.
These generally complement each other to foster positive creativity, but apparently
not always. In this venture his careful analysis is overshadowed by his
energetic impatience. What he doesn’t realize is that the throttle linkage on
the replacement motor is not adjusted – the car needs to be running to set it
correctly. The installed setting happens to be nearer maximum speed than idle,
where it would have to be for his plan to have any chance of success.
So the frumpy old
‘37 Chev gets a push. After sputtering for a few car lengths it leaps into
life. The shock comes immediately. Like an untamed mustang the driverless beast
bolts out of the barnyard, through the gate and into the west pasture, barely
missing the old wooden granary. Owen, in a helpless panic, follows in the blue
Chev, watching the maroon monster buck and rear its way over the gopher hole hummocks
and dead-furrows, and as if dying for a drink, head straight for the swimming
hole.
From the hill
above the creek Owen vainly watches it hit the water with a gigantic splash and
slowly sink to the gloop, gloop, gloop of bubbles surfacing. Only the back
window remains above the water. We later drag it out with the tractor for the
old maroon “37 Chev to await its final trip - to the scrap yard.
This event in no
way affected Owen’s love of driving. As an adult he drove anywhere, anytime, in
any conditions. After moving to Ontario he twice bought Ford Thunderbirds and
drove them the 3500 km. to Alberta to sell. One year he delivered a school bus
to Edmonton from Toronto making the trip in just forty-eight hours. How? - By
eating and sleeping in the bus whenever a bit of food or rest was needed.
Owen seemed to
regard driving as a sort of game, and he did love games. The strategy, competition
and camaraderie of any kind of game were his delight. When he was nine years
old he wanted to learn chess. I taught him the basics and could, if I chose, defeat
him in every game – until he was about twelve years old. He began to win games
and in a few years he was not only defeating me in almost every game but also
giving me instruction. This might take the form of going back at the end of a
game and setting up the pieces as they were somewhere mid-game. Owen would then
say “Let’s see how the game would have gone if you had made this other (smarter?)
move instead”.
A love of games
extended to Owen’s playing and coaching softball, and especially to curling,
where he could make the strategic decisions as skip. The shelves in his den
were lined with trophies his team had won. Board games, card games, puzzles,
and eventually video games also fed his appetite for a mental challenge.
Owen engaged in
his game playing and most other encounters with a lightness and sense of
humour. He would chuckle at situations that others might take more seriously.
He was fond of joking and teasing, inducing others to share in his lightness. And
he was a prankster. An example is his “helpful” suggestion to a fellow guest at
a party. This guest was unfamiliar with
the neighborhood, and it being after dark, wasn’t sure if he could find his way
back to the main highway. Owen volunteered to lead the way, “Just follow me and
you won’t get lost” he offered. After about five minutes of driving, his
trusting friend finally recognized where they were. He stopped, got out of his
car, and went up to Owen’s car to “thank” him. I don’t know what he said but
I’m sure it was based on his realization that they had just completed a wide
circular tour of the town and were back at their point of departure! Owen’s
chuckles of glee were inevitably shared by his victim.
My last visit
with Owen at his acreage north of Toronto was in February, 2016. We worked
together servicing the transmission of his old Ferguson tractor, installing a
handrail on his basement staircase, and other odd jobs. When it came time to
leave on the forty minute trip to Pearson Airport I wanted to take the local
shuttle but Owen insisted on driving me. We raced down Highway 400 with the
speedometer registering between 120 and 130 k.p.h. most of the way despite
there being plenty of time to make my flight back to Vancouver.
Owen was driving
like there was no tomorrow. And for him there weren’t that many. He was in the
late stages of metastatic prostate cancer, and although having some difficulty
walking, he still enjoyed being behind the wheel. This was Owen indulging his
love of driving for as long as he possibly could. He died four months later. I
miss him and his irrepressible and infectious joie de vivre.
I was very sad to learn of Owen’s passing. We were both somewhat vertically challenged and I always felt a kinship with him. He coached our fastball team in the early 1960’s and his need for speed as evident then too. We were in a lead car trying to find the correct ball field when we heard the radio from the RCMP vehicle nearby call out a description of Owen’s car. We raced down the road to warn him but the Mountie was too smart for us and waved him up for some bitter medicine. He usually gave me starting at bat and I remember him scanning the game sheet, getting ready to submit it to the officials. I had had a good day and there were five diamonds by my name. He made a remark, to nobody in particular: “Hmm. Five at bats, five runs”. He had that uniquely understated, bemused smile that he often wore when something tickled him. He will never be forgotten.
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